Before I had the Mason, I had thought my week post-delivery would be relaxing. Sure, I'd be tired and sleep deprived, but my mom was coming and I'd just be able to hang out and sleep while she took care of everything. Our first week with Mason didn't quite go that way. He's a happy, easy baby- he sleeps, wakes up to eat/poop, and then just goes back to sleep - but then he decided to take the "October baby" thing a little too far and look like a pumpkin due to jaundice.
His bili was a little high when we we left the hospital, but not enough to cause worry. I went to the doctor just for a recheck on Monday. It had gone up into the range where we needed to do something about it. No problem, I thought. We'll just end up with a home bili-blanket like we did with Connor. Unfortunately, that wasn't the case. He was still within bili-blanket range, but our insurance wasn't. Apparently in all of Seattle, there is only one home health agency who does home bili-blankets. One. And they don't take our insurance. We couldn't pay for it out of pocket, - as in the home health agency wouldn't let us. So that meant we had to go to the hospital. Having a baby makes you emotional, but having a baby that you have to take back to the hospital (especially because of stupid insurance reasons) makes you hysterical. I was very teary on Monday. The whole time, too, I was having such an internal struggle. I've done photo therapy on many babies myself. It's really no big deal, not life or death. But still, it seemed totally tragic. Those of you who have had babies in the hospital for other reasons- I can't imagine the emotional toll it must take.
Anyway, we got to the hospital on Monday night, got checked in, got our boy mostly nekkid and sunbathing. His bili went up even higher that night, so it was probably a good thing that we ended up being admitted.
Mason catchin' some rays
Cute boy actually awake
Mommy kisses
Daddy kisses
We only ended up staying for two days, but I was SO ready to be out of the hospital. Like I said- those of you who have more serious reasons for being admitted - I admire your strength. Those 2 days I spent were hard! Some good things did come out of it though. I was reminded yet again that we have a Heavenly Father who does hear our prayers and strengthens us and comforts in our challenges. I'm more grateful for my husband and the way he was there for my hormonally-imbalanced and hysterical self. I'm grateful that even though we had to share a room (not many private rooms on the floor), we were blessed with LDS roommates. I'm grateful that my mom was here to take care of my other kids so I could be at the hospital. And, in some ways, I'm grateful for the time I was able to just sit and watch my baby. It forced us into spending lots of time alone together. :).
Mason came home on Wednesday afternoon. On Thursday, he had another follow-up appointment, but this one went fine. Then, he got to go get his circ. For some reason, most of the hospitals around here do circs outpatient. Very inconvenient if you ask me. It was a little traumatic for him (and Jake), but now he's doing great.
Bath time- the calm before the storm. :)
Jake and I with Mason
My wonderful mother who kept things going at home. We were very sad when she left.
Ellie has enjoyed Mason. She frequently says, "Mom, I want to pet Mason." We're still working on being soft with the baby.
Connor's in heaven that he has a little brother. He's anxious for him to grow up enough to interact with.
The cute boy. He loves having his hands by his face. He's always asleep like this!
We're just grateful that this week is over- I don't know if Jake and I have ever been so ready for a weekend to come. It's been nice to just stay home and not have to take my poor baby to get poked or prodded anywhere! We should just have one appointment this week. Our fingers are crossed :).
11 comments:
Your mom told me about your yucky week. What a nightmare to have to deal with insurance woes on top of that all. I am so glad you had the help at home so you could be able to be there for Mason. I liked your perspective. You are dead on...hormonally imbalanced makes it all the more difficult to roll with a change in the plans. Hope you are all adjusting now!
I am so glad you have that behind you. That would be very tough to go through. Glad he's doing better. What a beautiful family!!
Look at those cute cute kids! I miss you guys! I'm sorry things were a little bumpy with Mason at first. He sure looks happy and chubby.
He is sooo cute! I am sorry you had to deal with Jaundice. We had that same problem. There wasn't a day in a two week span that we weren't at the doctors office or taking him to the lab to get poked. Those pregnancy hormones make it 10x's worse.
Abby you're an awesome Mom! I would have felt the same way, how frustrating. I'm glad you guys are home safe and sound. He's such a big, and CUTE boy.
I am SOOO sorry! Glad you got that Bili down! I'm afraid that your life will never be the same! Enjoy your 3rd little cutie! Glad things are calming down a bit for you though!
He's adorable, Abby. Congrats!
Congratulations! I'm so happy he's here and doing better now. I hope all is going well with the adjustment to 3.
Hospitals are weird, emotion intensifying places and I am glad you are home in your comfortable home. Congratulations on t he baby. he is so cute!
Congrats Jake and Abby! We are so happy for you guys and sorry about the jaundice! That is so hard! Hope things are going well!
I'm glad he's doing better and you're all home, that would not be fun to deal with. He's adorable!
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